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mobile phone rang in our tour bus=2E=A0 We are on tour as a family=A0 band i=
n Perth, Western Australia=2E=A0 On the phone was a good friend of ours from=
 the Central West of NSW, bringing us a Christmas greeting and a story of tr=
agedy=2E=A0 Our friend=A0 told me about a double murder that had just taken =
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Arial'=3EGuyon and Sharon were a beautiful young couple with 3 children aged=
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 as people are wont to do=2E=A0 Sharon 'found' a new man and Guyon was devas=
tated=2E=A0 They separated and three days before Christmas, according to pol=
ice media reports, Guyon, with another couple, bashed Sharon and her boy fri=
end to death with a baseball bat, stuffed the bodies into a car boot, drove =
out of town and emptied 12 bullets into the boot to make absolutely sure tha=
t Sharon and her boyfriend were well and truly dead=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D=
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al'=3EAs it stands Guyon and the other couple are in gaol, charged with murd=
er, with=A0even more people facing charges as well=2E=A0 The really sad part=
 of the equation is that now there=A0are not only two people dead, but a tot=
al of seven children have been robbed of both a father and a mother through =
a senseless brutal act=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<o:=
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=A0 The commandment is clear, 'Thou shall not kill'=2E=A0 The sad fact is th=
at the majority of murders today are related to family break-up, adultery of=
ten being the flashpoint for such hideous acts of violence=2E=A0 How do thes=
e things start=3F=A0 Men and women choose to forget their marriage vows, 'to=
 have and to hold, forsaking all others'=2E=A0 When things get hard, they st=
art to look about to see if someone else will be more suitable=2E=A0 The rea=
lity is that any relationship requires maintenance=2E=A0 In fact, maintainin=
g a successful marriage requires a great deal of work and commitment=2E</SPA=
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font-family: Arial'=3EWhat has this got to do with me as a father you ask=3F=
=A0 Well everything!=A0 Your children did not ask to be born=2E=A0 You and t=
heir mother helped create them, and they need you=2E=A0 Your children need b=
oth a mother and a father who are committed to them=2E=A0=A0 The greatest th=
ing a father can do for his children is to love his wife=2E=A0 The greatest =
fear that children have today is not the atomic bomb, but that their mother =
and father will=A0break up or divorce=2E=A0 It could be argued that the fall=
out from family break-up lasts far longer than radiation poisoning=2E=A0 The=
 negative effects of family break-up can last for several generations=2E</SP=
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al'=3EIn a few days we celebrate the beginning of a New Year=2E=A0 This is a=
 wonderful opportunity for you as a father to set some positive goals for yo=
ur family and=A0find new ways that you are going to love your wife and child=
ren=2E=A0 The tragic breakdown of our family begins when we as fathers cease=
 to be pro-active lovers of our wives and children=2E=A0 The greatest thing =
you can do for your children is to love your wife=2E=A0 Write your love goal=
s down on paper and hit the New Year running=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-=
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2=3EWarwick Marsh is the founder of the Fatherhood Foundation=2E=A0 Married =
for 27 years he is the father of five children, four boys and one girl, rang=
ing in age from 21 years to 9 years=2E=A0 Warwick is a musician, songwriter,=
 producer and public speaker who likes to think he can still laugh at himsel=
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v=3E <SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-=
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: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E<STRONG=3E<U=3ETHE ART OF FA=
THERING =96 FAMILY TIES<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-mi=
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=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E<STRONG=3E<U=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</U=3E</ST=
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T-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3EThe old saying =91time flies=92 nev=
er rings truer than at this time of year =96 Christmas=2E As we merrily go a=
bout our business for the other 11 months, before we know it December is upo=
n us, and the rat race that is the festive season=85begins=2E For many famil=
ies it is a time of getting together over a meal or two, making excuses for =
that middle aged spread that wasn=92t there last year, discussing just how m=
uch little Johnny has grown, and debating whether Susie looks like her mum o=
r her dad=2E Either way it is a great time of catching up, sharing memories,=
 and further building on the ever expanding family photo album=2E</SPAN=3E</=
P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal s=
tyle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3EFor=
 my family it is certainly a special time=2E Having moved up to Queensland i=
n July of this year, we have had little access to family visitations =96 and=
 as a result nana and pop have nearly forgotten what James, Chloe and Regan =
look like=2E No amount of photos in the post, or weekly updates via telephon=
e, can make up for the real thing=2E To see and feel that special bond betwe=
en grandparents and their grandchildren is truly precious, and perhaps one t=
aken for granted when living in close proximity=2E Due to our amended living=
 arrangements, seeing relatives only once or twice a year makes you apprecia=
te just how much you need family=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=
=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E=A0<o:p=
=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;=
 TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3EHowever, not all are as fortuna=
te as I, and perhaps do not have a family or friends to join over this Chris=
tmas period=2E Whether it be the elderly, the widowed, the orphaned, or the =
sick =96 Christmas needs to be just as special to those as it is to us=2E I =
believe it important to remember two elements of Christmas that are often si=
delined as a result of the (commercial) hype and mayhem =96 and these are:</=
SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: =
justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3D=
EN-US=3E1=2E Remember those who are alone and under-privileged; this country=
 is full of people who are lonely, people who are destitute and hungry, and =
at a time when many of us are feasting with friends and family=2E If we can =
help just one, it may be a gift, a meal, a smile =96 just to show we care =96=
 now that would be a Christmas to remember (for both parties)=2E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal s=
tyle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=3E2=2E=
 Remember the reason for celebrating Christmas =96 the birth of Jesus Christ=
=2E Only one man has walked the earth and made such an impact =96 one that i=
s 2000 years strong=2E For many people in the world today, often a world of =
little hope, having the ability to hang on to the promises of God may be jus=
t the life saving remedy that is needed=2E <SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=
=3E=A0</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
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tmas is a beautiful time of year, and one that I look forward to with great =
zeal=2E What makes my Christmas so special=3F=2E=2E=2EFAMILY and FRIENDS=2E =
My tip for young fathers today is this =96 cherish those family ties =96 mak=
e Christmas a time to renew friendships, make Christmas a time to spend with=
 family, and make Christmas a time to thank God for all those blessings best=
owed upon us the previous 364 days of the year=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DM=
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so-fareast-font-family: ' New Times mso-bidi-font-family: =3FTimes Roman=3F;=
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mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language=
: EN-AU; mso-fareast-font-family: ' New Times mso-bidi-font-family: =3FTimes=
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T-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN-RIGHT: 1=2E3pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FON=
T-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EPaul Sloan is an accountant working in=
 Maroochydore=2E=A0 He is married with three children aged one, nine and ele=
ven years=2E=A0 Paul is an active surfer who lives on the Sunshine Coast in =
Queensland=2E=A0 He is a family man who hasn=92t lost his sense of humour=2E=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Drig=
ht=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<=
br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 =
height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ec=
om=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' widt=
h=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D12 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff=
' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathe=
rs/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D=
'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anc=
hor3'=3E</a=3E<b=3EGrandads</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E=
<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/=
client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue18-30th Dec, 2002=5Fgrandad 28=2Ejpg' align=3D=
left=3E</div=3E <FONT size=3D5=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS' size=3D6=3E<FO=
NT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0=
cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3D'Comic Sans MS=
' size=3D5=3EThe best portion of a good man's life are his little, nameless,=
 unremembered acts of kindness and of love=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNo=
rmal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<FON=
T face=3D'Comic Sans MS' size=3D5=3E<FONT size=3D3=3EWilliam Wordsworth</FON=
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<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=
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ter</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img =
src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5F=
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ndpa was celebrating his 100th birthday and everybody complimented him on ho=
w athletic and well-preserved he appeared=2E 'Gentlemen, I will tell you the=
 secret of my success,' he cackled=2E 'I have been in the open air day after=
 day for some 75 years now=2E' </SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; =
FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-m=
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'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 13=2E5pt'=3EThe celebrants were i=
mpressed and asked how he managed to keep up his rigorous fitness regime=2E =
'Well, you see my wife and I were married 75 years ago=2E On our wedding nig=
ht, we made a solemn pledge=2E Whenever we had a fight, the one who was prov=
ed wrong would go outside and take a walk=2E' </SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</F=
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rmal; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EA Sunday School teacher asked her class why Jo=
seph and Mary took Jesus with them to Jerusalem=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E<=
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'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EA Sunday School teacher asked =
her class why Joseph and Mary took Jesus with them to Jerusalem=2E <o:p=3E</=
o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</H4=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FON=
T-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EA small child replied: 'They couldn't get a baby-sitter=
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<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=
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'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/=
templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E=
<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://w=
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e=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helveti=
ca, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor5'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESingl=
e Dads</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<i=
mg src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathe=
rs=5Fissue18-30th Dec, 2002=5Fteenagers 7=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <SP=
AN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-ansi-font-size=
: 12=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<SPAN=3E<FONT face=
=3DVerdana=3E<FONT size=3D3=3E<SPAN=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SP=
AN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
 mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3E<STRONG=3E<FONT co=
lor=3Dblack=3EFive Love Languages of Teenagers</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E<=
/P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZ=
E: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso=
-ansi-language: EN-US'=3E<FONT color=3Dblack=3Eby Gary Chapman</FONT=3E</SPA=
N=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FON=
T-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt=
; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3E<FONT color=3Dblack=3EThis article is a Book R=
eview by Gary Chapman but is particularly focussed on the=A0chapter dealing =
with custodial and non custodial parents=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D=
'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: =
navy; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: =
EN-US'=3E<FONT color=3Dblack=3EThe book is one of many that Gary has produce=
d and is an excellent resource for all parents=2E<BR=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT color=3Dblack=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-=
US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-fon=
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:</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT c=
olor=3Dblack=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FON=
T-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY:=
 Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3EI think i=
t is safe to say that in no generation has the task of parenting teenagers b=
een more perplexing than at the present time=2E=A0 The plethora of teenage v=
iolence is no longer limited to the fictional world of the movies, but it is=
 a regular part of the evening news=2E Reports of teens killing teens, paren=
ts, and sometimes themselves have become commonplace=2E=A0 The fact that suc=
h behavior is no longer limited to the impoverished areas of our major citie=
s but has come to permeate middle-class suburbia has raised deep concern in =
the hearts of parents of all social classes=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-S=
IZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<=3Fxml:namesp=
ace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US=
 style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi=
-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3EAs I lead nationwide marria=
ge seminars, many of the parents I meet are in panic mode=2E This is especia=
lly true of parents who have discovered that their own teenager has a sexual=
ly transmitted disease, is pregnant, or has had an abortion=2E Some parents =
have discovered that their teenager is not only using drugs, but is a drug p=
usher in the local high school=2E Other are distraught when they get a call =
from the local police department saying that their teenager has been arreste=
d and charged with possession of a firearm=2E For those parents, the overrid=
ing question comes not from a philosophical, detached intellectual intereste=
d in today's social problems but rather flows from deep pools of personal pa=
in: 'What did we do wrong=3F'</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR:=
 windowtext; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<=
P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10p=
t; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso=
-ansi-language: EN-US'=3E'We tried to be good parents; we've given them ever=
ything they wanted=2E How could they do this to themselves and to us=3F We j=
ust don't understand,' they say=2E=A0 Having been a marriage and family coun=
selor for the past 30 years, I am deeply sympathetic with these parents=2E I=
 also feel great empathy for the thousands of parents whose teenagers are no=
t involved in the destructive behaviors noted above, but who live with the r=
eality that if it happened to those teenagers, it could also happen to their=
 teenagers=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso=
-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-=
ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: window=
text; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: =
EN-US'=3EThere is no simple answer to the unrest in the soul of the contempo=
rary teenager=2E=A0 The reality is that today's teenager lives in a world un=
known to its predecessors=2E=A0 It's a global world with satellite, TV, the =
internet, and much more=2E Modern technology is exposing our teens to the be=
st and worst of all human cultures=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt=
; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E5=
pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3EIt is my observation that never before have =
parents of teenagers felt so helpless, but it is also my opinion that never =
before have the parents of teenagers been so important=2E=A0 More than ever,=
 teenagers need all parents=2E=A0 All research indicates that the most signi=
ficant influence on the life of a teenager comes from parents=2E=A0 It is on=
ly when parents become involved that their role of guidance is replaced by t=
he gang, peer group, or friend at school=2E=A0 I am deeply committed to the =
premise that the teenager's best interest is served when parents assume thei=
r role as loving leaders in the home=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10=
pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=
=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FONT=
-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 7=2E=
5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3EThis book focuses on what I believe to be t=
he most foundational=A0 building block of parent-teen relationships - love=2E=
=A0 I believe that love is the most important word in the English language a=
nd the most misunderstood word=2E=A0 It is my hope that this book will remov=
e some of the confusion and help parents focus effectively on how to meet th=
eir teenagers emotional need for love=2E=A0 I believe that if the need is me=
t, it will profoundly affect the behavior of the teenager=2E=A0 At the root =
of much teenage misbehavior is a teen's empty love tank=2E=A0 I am not sugge=
sting that parents don't love their teenagers; I am suggesting that thousand=
s of teenagers do not feel that love=2E=A0 For most parents, it is not a mat=
ter of sincerity but rather lack of information on how to communicate love e=
ffectively on an emotional level=2E=2E=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: =
10pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SP=
AN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-US style=3D'FO=
NT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: =
7=2E5pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US'=3EI believe that if a teenager's emotiona=
l need for love is met through adolescence, he or she will navigate the wate=
rs of change and come out on the other side of the rapids as a healthy young=
 adult=2E=A0 That's the shared vision of most parents=2E=A0 I believe this i=
s your vision=2E=A0 Now lets plunge into the waters, entering the teen's wor=
ld and learning the challenge and opportunities to communicate love to our t=
eens=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: windowtext; mso-bidi-=
font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3D'Arial Unicode MS'=3E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</F=
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i-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3D'Times New Roman'=3E<FONT face=3DVerda=
na color=3Dblack=3EChapter=A014 deals with the single parent and sets out im=
portant guidelines for both custodial and non custodial parents to follow=2E=
 </FONT=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana colo=
r=3Dblack=3EThese are summarised as:</FONT=3E</P=3E<UL=3E<LI=3E<DIV style=3D=
'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana color=3Dblack=3EListen to your =
teenager</FONT=3E</DIV=3E<LI=3E<DIV style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT fa=
ce=3DVerdana color=3Dblack=3ETeach your teenager to handle anger in a positi=
ve way</FONT=3E</DIV=3E<LI=3E<DIV style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=
=3DVerdana color=3Dblack=3EKindly but firmly keep the boundaries in place</F=
ONT=3E</DIV=3E<LI=3E<DIV style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdan=
a color=3Dblack=3EAbove all else,give your teenager unconditional love</FONT=
=3E</DIV=3E<LI=3E<DIV style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana c=
olor=3Dblack=3EConsider joining a single parent study<BR=3Eenlist the help o=
f extended family, friends, and churches</FONT=3E</DIV=3E</LI=3E</UL=3E<P st=
yle=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana color=3Dblack=3EThis is a=
n excellent book and is available at Koorong or Word bookstores=2E</FONT=3E<=
/P=3E<P style=3D'TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<A href=3D'ht=
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lor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/t=
emplates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font si=
ze=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E=
<a name=3D'anchor6'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESpecial Feature</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D=
'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Eco=
m=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue18-30th Dec, 2002=5FBill=
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E: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E5pt; mso-ansi-langua=
ge: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU; mso-fareast-font-family: ' New Times=
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T size=3D2=3E<SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E<H4 style=3D'MAR=
GIN: auto 0cm'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-F=
AMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<STRONG=3EThe First Parent <=
BR=3E</STRONG=3Eby Bill Cosby <=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:sch=
emas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</H4=3E<P styl=
e=3D'mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Ve=
rdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EWhenever your kids are out of control=
, you can take comfort from the thought that even God's omnipotence did not =
extend to his kids=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-=
level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-f=
ont-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EAfter creating Heaven and Earth, God created Adam and =
Eve=2E And the first thing He said to them was: 'Don't=2E' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</=
SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 1=
0pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E'Don't what=3F', =
Adam replied=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-level:=
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ze: 12=2E0pt'=3E'Don't eat the forbidden fruit=2E' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E<=
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T-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E'Forbidden fruit=3F Reall=
y=3F Where is it=3F' <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-l=
evel: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-fo=
nt-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E'It's over there,' said God, wondering why He hadn't st=
opped after making the elephants=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D=
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a; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EA few minutes later God saw the kids havi=
ng an apple break and He was angry=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=
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dana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E'Didn't I tell you not to eat that fru=
it=3F' the First Parent asked=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'm=
so-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
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0pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E'Then why did you=
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t'=3E'I dunno,' Adam answered=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'm=
so-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
 mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EGod's punishment was that Adam and Eve shou=
ld have children of their own=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'm=
so-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;=
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hanged=2E But there is reassurance in this story=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-level: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FO=
NT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EIf you have persistently=
 and lovingly tried to give them wisdom and they haven't taken it, don't be =
hard on yourself=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'mso-outline-le=
vel: 5'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-fon=
t-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EIf God had trouble handling children, what makes you thi=
nk it would be a piece of cake for you=3F <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P c=
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pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EBill Cosby is the =
author of the books 'Fatherhood' and 'Time Flies,' which became record-break=
ing best sellers=2E Both books occupied The New York Times Best Sellers list=
, as did another book, 'Childhood=2E' (Source: Internet)<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPA=
N=3E</P=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=
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dana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor7=
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T face=3DVerdana=3EThank you for your correspondence of 8 December 2002 encl=
osing a copy of 'Fathering from the Fast Lane'=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P =
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ring from the Fast Lane'=2E=A0 I think the book is a wonderful idea, and it =
looks extremely interesting and insightful=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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s true that my role as a parliamentarian keeps me very busy, travelling freq=
uently and spending many days away from home=2E=A0 After 24 years on the job=
, I am extremely lucky to be surrounded by a loving, understanding and suppo=
rtive family, which enables me to fulfil my role as a Senator=2E=A0 It is im=
portant that fathers spend quality time with their children, and it is easy =
for parents to become so involved in their careers and everyday life that th=
eir family life suffers, sometimes unnoticeably=2E=A0 I hope this book helps=
 to solve some of those problems that parents, and fathers in particular, fa=
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I wish you a very Merry Christmas and all the best for a prosperous and heal=
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